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Aikido and Ki in Daily Life

August 17th, 2011

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Not as prevalent or culturally recognizable as Karate or Judo, Aikido is arguably the most complex, elegant and limitless of the martial arts originating from Japan. Its flowing movement and, by design, effortless blending with an opponent’s energy makes it especially relevant in today’s stressful world. So what makes this mysterious art so unique and powerful?

The word Ai-ki-do was evolved by the art’s founder, ‘O Sensei‘ (great teacher) Morehei Ueshiba. In essence, it connotes the path (”do”) of unifying (”ai”) one’s personal energy or life force (”ki”) with that of the universe. Aikido’s martial origins evolved out of a complex and long lineage of training and technique leading up to Budo (warrior arts of the samurai), and its late-stage influence from daito-ryu jujitsu (the legacy of which can be readily seen in the many wrist immobilizations and throws), and from which the founder developed aiki-jitsu, and then Aikido.

Aikido’s greatest contribution, ultimately expressed through the founder’s aims to unify humanity through self-purification and love, is as its legacy as the ‘Art Of Peace.’ What this means, in a practical daily sense, is that one is able–through the principles and experiential practice of ‘non-resistance’ in Aikido–to eradicate the habitual and aggressive reactivity of the subconscious mind, and thus karma, in the world at large.

In other words, one learns how to calmly and harmoniously blend with conflict; in its highest form, this transcends conscious action and stems agression before it takes seed. This has two layers: firstly, one becomes a calm and peaceful presence in the world, thus becoming ‘part of the solution; secondly, one’s ability to ultimately extinguish the impulse of agression before it arises in actions or intent leads to a more human society.

O Sensei, Morehei Ueshiba, demonstrating the minimal effort and superb control of Aikido movement in resolving conflict.

While this may seem impossibly challenging in a technical sense, or in the least intimidating, some basic neuroanatomy helps to understand what is happening on the physical and emotional level. In a bio-psychological way, what happens to the average person presented with a threat is that their mid-brain structures immediately trigger a ‘fight/flight’ response. The prefrontal cortex of the brain, associated with rational decision-making, is interrupted by a more primal response to protect the organism (run/fight, ask questions later!). By working with our subconscious minds, we can learn to override this reflex, consciously and calmly responding with only the minimal actions necessary.

In effect, by responding this way (in keeping with conflict resolution theory/technique) we also have a much better chance of abating the hyperarousal of our aggressor. On a neurobiological level, so-called ‘mirror-neurons’ come into effect, and our calm, confident presence and gentle assertive energy and movement can effectively ‘calm’ the violence of our ‘attacker.’ Ultimately, we cannot assert control over the free will of another–particularly if they are in a hyper-agitated and wilfully aggressive state.

With a spirit of loving protection, however, the superb blending movement of Aikido can quickly, smoothly and with minimal effort dissolve the attackers movement and assert control over the situation.

In our Aikido training, emphasis is placed on developing this awareness and re-conditioning the subconscious mind/body through Ki Development. Simply put, through exercises that could be described as non-reactive ‘moving meditation,’ we make our new habit that of connecting with the groundedness of Earth, and the limitlessness of Heaven. By extending this feeling in all directions at all times, we both embody and project a feeling of ever-expanding stability and a light feeling that can benefit us in every thought and action.

It was Ueshiba’s vision to unite humanity through the spiritual practice of Aikido–through Love. And yet, as Siddartha Gautama, the ‘Buddha,’ said of the birthright of enlightenment and liberation through mindful meditation, you cannot take action on dogma or doctrine–you must investigate and discover it for yourself…

Senshin Ki Aikido, Vancouver BC.

Sensei Michael A. Gordon, 4th Dan

EMDR: The Mind/Body Approach & Weight Loss

March 25th, 2010

EMDR, Mind/Body Approach, Weight Loss and Eating Disorders (http://www.mindfulyoutherapy.com)

To really understand what is vital to weight loss, we have to take a holistic mind/body approach. Current research provides more evidence that our physiological health, immunity and mental well-being are interdependent. For example, the neurochemicals responsible for emotional processing bind to receptor cell sites all over our body. Renowned researcher Candace Pert suggests that this means our body is actually our subconscious mind! When you consider that our gut is populated with huge clusters of receptors for emotional processing, the importance of a mind/body integrated approach to healing becomes ever more clear.

Dr. Bruce Lipton is leading the way in the field of ‘epigenetics,’ which is showing that unlike previously thought, our DNA is not ‘locked’ in a predetermined mode in our cells. Rather, it is affected by external stimuli–including thoughts–which shape how genetic cellular information is released. In other words, we don’t necessarily inherit our body shape, disease or other factors genetically!

When it comes to a psychotherapy approach to addressing weight issues, it is crucial to examine how our current perception/feeling about ourselves is being ‘distorted’ by past experiences. While we tend to think of ‘trauma’ as being involved in life-threatening situations, psychological research is also now confirming that disorders such as depression and anxiety are the result of cumulative negative small ‘t’ traumas built up over time. Our system experiences trauma as any overwhelm to equilibrium, and when we face these situations, our natural response is to go into a limbic or ‘fight or flight’ reaction. Unfortunately, when this happens, we lose the ability to ‘finish’ with the event, and it stays ‘frozen’ in our nervous system, getting continuously re-triggered by present situations. Thus, our ability to shed old overwhelm to the system is often reflected in our physical condition–sometimes it simply means we ‘armour’ ourselves unconsciously with layers of extra body fat.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a highly effective mind/body approach that heals these past traumas, and quickly allows for self-healing in the present. Simply put, by safely connecting to past events pinpointed by the therapist, the client can ‘finish’ processing the stuck physiological experience and come back to equilibrium in the present. Thus, their entire system can come back into balance–shutting off the old alarms (stress hormones, etc) and letting their body function normally. One crucial element involved is the stress hormone Cortisol. When a person is triggered into an old trauma state, the Cortisol is activated–this hormone causes a person to not only crave carbohydrates to compensate for feelings of panic or depression, but also stores fat in the body!

EMDR is the most researched and clinically tested therapy approach to date for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. When you consider this, applying it to body weight/image issues makes it a very powerful tool for helping a person connect with positive beliefs and to take action to better their life in every way.

Michael Gordon, MSc, EMDR
Director, Mindful You Therapy Clinic
info@mindfulyoutherapy.com
604.638.1675
Vancouver, BC

New Study Shows Spanking Has Adverse Effects On Children

September 16th, 2009

Experts say “popping” kids can do more harm than good. A new study of more than 2,500 toddlers from low-income families found that spanking may have detrimental effects on behavior and mental development.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/09/16/spanking.children.parenting/index.html

Placebo Effect Shows Mind/Body Biochemical Process

September 8th, 2009

From: http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg18524911.600-13-things-that-do-not-make-sense.html?full=true

Don’t try this at home. Several times a day, for several days, you induce pain in someone. You control the pain with morphine until the final day of the experiment, when you replace the morphine with saline solution. Guess what? The saline takes the pain away.

This is the placebo effect: somehow, sometimes, a whole lot of nothing can be very powerful. Except it’s not quite nothing. When Fabrizio Benedetti of the University of Turin in Italy carried out the above experiment, he added a final twist by adding naloxone, a drug that blocks the effects of morphine, to the saline. The shocking result? The pain-relieving power of saline solution disappeared.

So what is going on? Doctors have known about the placebo effect for decades, and the naloxone result seems to show that the placebo effect is somehow biochemical. But apart from that, we simply don’t know.

Benedetti has since shown that a saline placebo can also reduce tremors and muscle stiffness in people with Parkinson’s disease. He and his team measured the activity of neurons in the patients’ brains as they administered the saline. They found that individual neurons in the subthalamic nucleus (a common target for surgical attempts to relieve Parkinson’s symptoms) began to fire less often when the saline was given, and with fewer “bursts” of firing – another feature associated with Parkinson’s. The neuron activity decreased at the same time as the symptoms improved: the saline was definitely doing something.

We have a lot to learn about what is happening here, Benedetti says, but one thing is clear: the mind can affect the body’s biochemistry. “The relationship between expectation and therapeutic outcome is a wonderful model to understand mind-body interaction,” he says. Researchers now need to identify when and where placebo works. There may be diseases in which it has no effect. There may be a common mechanism in different illnesses. As yet, we just don’t know.

A Talk On Moving From Fear and Agression To Calm In Daily Life with Michael Gordon

September 1st, 2009

Taming The Wild Horse:
A Talk On Moving From Fear and Agression To Calm In Daily Life with Michael Gordon
Sept. 3rd 7pm

Sponsored by Awake In Action, a program of the Vancouver Shambhala Centre.
Vancouver Shambhala Center
3275 Heather Street
Vancouver, BC

Online Therapy As Good As Face To Face? New Research Suggests ‘Yes’

August 31st, 2009

http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/08/31/online.internet.therapy.cbt/

Please visit http://www.mindfulyoutherapy.com for online therapy now.

Three simple words for tough times…

August 19th, 2009

Winston Churchill famously used them. So did the Dalai Lama. So what are they? Not, as you might have suspected: “I love you.” However, they are equally if not more powerful. So here they are, three simple words that contain a lot of power: NEVER…GIVE…UP. This credo, certainly in the context of WWII and Churchill’s fireside calls-to-arms to the beleaguered British nation might seem self-evident in difficult moments, even the direst of circumstances. When it comes to our own ‘blind spots,’ however, its meaning is easily lost amidst a cacophony of negative beliefs, emotions and sensations.

Somewhere in your life is a partner, coworker, family member, pet or a situation that seems hopeless. It may regard health, finances or the success of a venture. Certainly, with any one of those things, we may not have the control we desire over the outcome. Situations can be extremely disheartening. And here is an interesting word. Did you know that the root of the word “courage” is coeur, from the french word for “heart.” So, to have courage literally means to have “heart.” This is a profound notion, because it belies our conventional association with bravery and courage, that of resolve, strength, conviction, force. While these elements hold true, at the center is the strength and will of the heart. More specifically, it is the ability to keep an open heart, to risk being wounded and feeling uncertainty in tough times, one which allows us to remain undaunted and fully human in the most heinous situations.

Often in difficult moments, there is a sense of injustice or injury. Certainly, there are times (think of Nelson Mandela in prison, or the exiled Dalai Lama) where there is persecution. The key to our own humanity and strength is not in bolstering some kind of internal fortitude from anger or resistance, but from, as the Dalai Lama reminds us, that even in the face of the most objectionable and injurious behaviour from others, even our enemies, on some level, seek happiness. This is a profound realization, and the ability to see how another’s humanity–not to mention our own instinct for understanding–has seemingly gone awry, is mediated by this ‘intelligence of the heart.’

The next time you feel angry, misjudged or even insignificant in the face of trying times, let the hardness of your heart soften, and notice the pain, for under it and all the associated hopes, fears and fantasies is essentially the vibrant open spaciousness of open-hearted compassion. As Gandhi so bravely pointed out: “Whatever you do may seem insignificant to you, but it is most important that you do it.”

1st Annual Dharma Bake — Pictures tell a thousand words…The spirit of giving in the Downtown Eastide of Vancouver BC

December 26th, 2007

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It was a magical day from the start. I took my Max for a walk while the moon–full and silvery in the early morning twilight–slowly made its descent for the rising of Great Eastern Sun. And so, with an auspicious beginning, the sky opened, the rain gave way, and 20 good-hearted volunteers gathered at lunch hour in the Downtown Eastide to serve warm baked potatoes freshly prepared in their home kitchens.

We served roughly 300 potatoes with full trimmings to hundreds of very grateful people from the community. It was a heartwarming event for the volunteers, and the people congregated at Pigeon Park alike, sharing in the spirit of human-to-human kindness and sharing.

The event was co-sponsored and organized by Mindfulyou.com and Awakeinaction.org–many folks from the Vancouver Shambhala Center attended.

My sincere thanks to all the volunteers for making this first event an easy and outstanding success. My special heartfelt thanks to Lisa Hill from awakeinaction.org, for her unwavering enthusiasm and generosity of spirit, and to Ben Harapat (thegranolaking.com) for bringing his tent awning!

A huge and heartfelt thank you goes to http://www.greenearthorganics.com, who donated 50lbs of organic potatoes; and Stong’s Market on Dunbar Street in Vancouver, for donating another 50lbs!

Please drop a line and stay tuned for future dharma events…


Michael Gordon

Anita Roddick, founder of The Body Shop, passes on at 64

October 22nd, 2007

It is with sadness that the world has lost Anita Roddick, a tireless advocate for social, economic and environmental change. Roddick had only recently been diagnosed with Hepatitis C, contracted from a blood transfusion during childbirth in 1971.

Roddick leaves an incredible legacy as an  ethical entrepeneur and global citizen, and has transformed the awareness of masses of people worldwide, while giving them alternatives to mindless consumerism.

What Buddhism Offers Science: Mixing Buddhism and neuroscience to understand human consciousness

September 10th, 2007

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An article by His Holiness The Dalai Lama, From the OCT/NOV 2005 issue of Seed proposes a partnership that may advance our understanding of the experience of consciousness to help us alleviate suffering.